Finding a real connection with somebody is an impossible task when we all lack connection with ourselves, or simply with reality.
We all look for answers or a way to navigate through the world, a simple solution. A set of ideas or beliefs we can attach ourselves to, which end up being merely a painkiller, in a world where everyone has their bones broken and needs surgery.
We expect the world to fit our beliefs, but it never lives to that expectation. And It never will.